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Today at a party, my aunt asked me when I'm going to get married. I'm 18... and I'm a lesbian. MLID.
Wah! You are a true desi (412) - Really? Desi? Go check yourself. (2371)

im a straigh guy all for gay rights but thats traditionally considered very wrong in the Desi community. ur in a really tough spot and i wish u best of luck for the future!
#25075 - Dec 27, 2010 04:56 PM by gujuking
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Damn thats hawt =) But power to u, hope u can get over this whole marriage thing. Lol & ur 18?
#424 - Jun 25, 2009 01:41 PM by Narayana
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Right there with you. Except I'm a boy. I think I have it even worse.
#471 - Jun 26, 2009 11:37 AM by Hahametoo
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i feel ur pain-- bein desi & lesbian.. not easy.
#1656 - Jul 11, 2009 05:49 PM by 2umreekan
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hahaha thats funny and first time i heard of a indian lesbian
#5217 - Sep 1, 2009 03:50 PM by junraza92
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whoa O.o i never thot i'd see the word "lesbian" on here! but anyways goog luck with that missy =). You don't owe anyone an explanation. It's your life.
#20154 - Jun 13, 2010 07:20 PM by Ticklezzz
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dang..good luck with that!! im sure you'll get past this whole problem though. dont worry, yaar! lol
#20328 - Jun 23, 2010 12:07 AM by desiladki104
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Hey, Cupcakelove, go fuck yourself. She has every right to be lesbian. Being gay isn't something that you can just chose, it's something that you're born as. Honestly, let me ask you; are you a Muslim? If you are, asthugfirhallah, to you. That isn't the way you should be acting.
#22648 - Sep 30, 2010 04:39 PM by RationalDesi
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Ohh, ouch. Good luck and strength to face the uncles and aunties if they ever find out.. (This shouldn't be an "umreekan" thing)
#1817 - Feb 5, 6470 12:47 PM by pulskeeter
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lmao i wonder how true this sounds...but ok good luck with that lesbo
#1999 - Jul 15, 2009 01:43 AM by desigirl143
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yo me too! And I'm 18 and a girl. Sucks right? :(
#4683 - Aug 23, 2009 12:03 AM by mintminutemen
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I have a gay uncle who's married to a man, he's still alive so there's hope!
#10160 - Feb 5, 1157 12:56 PM by fakeengleesee
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aw man that sucks.. i kno a bi desi and #6 wtf ppl cant help who theyre attracted to bein a lesbian doesnt make her any less desi
#11865 - Nov 30, 2009 03:46 PM by bsid
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aww ! well idk what i am rite now... kinda cunfuzd :/ hope to figure it out by the endof this yr, but dnt worry, if ur rentz r any normal desi rents theyll freak out n get pissed off, n ur dad mite be the worst. maybe your mom. but evntually theyll get ovr it n accept the fact tht you are who you are, evn thou they mite b uncomfertable vizitin u n ur wife... n if ur rentz already no then ur aunt n uncle XD gud luck chica !
#22659 - Oct 1, 2010 10:23 AM by _aarti_
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i wonder how a desi parent reacts when tehy find out their son/daughter isnt straight
#22485 - Aug 28, 2010 04:46 AM by desi_girlx3
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You should do something unthinkable, like say you're getting married to a black guy. That way, anything that comes after that will not be so horrible. Anyways, kudos to you, and more power to you
#23174 - Oct 28, 2010 06:04 PM by nonsense
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lool desi anda lesbian... it must be hard to live life
#24785 - Dec 22, 2010 10:41 AM by Moochy
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At least if u date, u'll be w/ a girl and the aunties will think ur just friends
#25893 - Jan 18, 2011 10:16 PM by PaneerToMyAloo
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pfft ikr? I'm bi & my desi parents are gonna freak if I tell them lol
#26169 - Jan 24, 2011 07:42 PM by LadyGagaLover
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awwe :c i feel bad now. one of my best friends is desi and gay...his parents don't know though... i wish you the best of luck from the bottom of my heart
#26181 - Jan 24, 2011 10:28 PM by celerystalker19
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Hey, everyone is different, so what if shes gay? HER own personal issue, those who sit there and diss her, fuck off. We hate the whole arranged marriges, and she hates the opposite sex. her own choice.
#26197 - Jan 25, 2011 01:33 AM by Absolut.
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the bible is the ultimate authority and is against homsexuality, just switch back to hetero its possible ive read the stories of ex-gays with families.
#26213 - Jan 25, 2011 09:07 PM by Anees
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The Bible also says eating shellfish is unholy, but Christians do it anyway. Redthread, I wish you the best of luck with everything.
#28663 - Mar 21, 2011 11:46 PM by an0khee - reply
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@soodesii123 and desi!, if you think being yourself is a sin and non-desi, go ahead. My thoughts are that I hope this person has control of their life and doesn't let social ignoramus's like you and everone else who think being who you were meant to be is wrong influence their happiness in life. They were born that way because GOD wanted them to be. Ever thought about that? Yeah, didn't think so. Bye.
#33155 - Feb 5, 8934 01:08 PM by ...
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Wow, someone is a closed minded ignoramus. Fuck off.
#22665 - Oct 1, 2010 02:21 PM by RationalDesi - reply
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seriously? uv got issues, theyr still human, lik evryone else
#22661 - Oct 1, 2010 10:24 AM by _aarti_ - reply
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actually lik most ppl. u shure ur human?
#22662 - Oct 1, 2010 10:24 AM by _aarti_ - reply
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EWWWWWW.............. Ive never met a dei lesbian, that is just grosssssss, are you musim cause thats haram if you are. GO TO THE FREAKIN DOCTOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! astagfrullah
#22645 - Sep 30, 2010 02:24 PM by cupcakelove
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Being gay isn't a disorder that can, or should be treated. It's just how a person is born. Kindly fuck off and go see a doctor for your case of terminal dickheaded nature.
#22664 - Oct 1, 2010 02:20 PM by RationalDesi - reply
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People like you disgust me. Absolutely disgust me.
#26182 - Jan 24, 2011 10:28 PM by celerystalker19 - reply
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who do think you are.. judging her.... you have no right to say that to anyone... let her live her life and u continue on with ur life
#29144 - Apr 3, 2011 04:12 AM by n_vaduthala - reply
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